It's always hard to make a decision to spend money on things I can do myself. I am totally glad I did. It was very painful to have my current profile torn apart (in a respectful way), but well worth it. Even, considering all the time and effort it took me to write and rewrite my original profile myself. I was given some great suggestions with what photos and text to remove from my profile. I made those changes while I was waiting for them to write my profile description. My result were almost immediate. I got three messages back within the first day, when I would usually get an occasional message in a week (My original profile was sabotaging me). From the new profile look and the instructions they gave me on how to use the dating websites, it gave me more confidence and success with my online dating experience. They were able to write it in such a way that took the things I told them about myself and make it sound really good. Thank you very much!!